What Should You Revisit When You Live Longer Than You Once Expected?

Ross Marino |

You may have made a financial decision years ago because you thought your spouse would need to manage without you sooner. Protecting that person mattered. The arrangement gave you a way to prepare for a future you took seriously.

Now you’re still here, and you’re beginning to imagine more years together. That’s a reason to revisit the decision with care. The original purpose can still matter even when the timeline behind it has changed.

Which part of the original decision has changed?

Start with the expectation you held when you made the choice. Perhaps you placed particular weight on the money your spouse would receive after your death. Ask whether that concern still deserves the same emphasis as you consider the years you may both continue living.

You don’t need a new prediction before you can review the plan. Longevity estimates describe possible lifespans, including the chances that one or both members of a couple will live to different ages. They cannot tell you exactly how long either of you will live.[1]

Give both possibilities a place in the review: one spouse dies sooner, or both spouses continue living for many years. Looking at both helps you avoid treating a changed expectation as a certainty.

What does the arrangement provide under each timeline?

An annuity can illustrate why timing matters. Depending on its terms, a contract may provide a death benefit, money you can withdraw, or income during life. Those features have different conditions. A death-benefit amount is not automatically money you can spend while you’re alive.[2]

Some annuities can provide income for life. Whether a particular arrangement supports one person, both spouses, or a survivor depends on its actual terms and payment choices.[3] So review the protections already present before deciding that the arrangement serves only one timeline.

One existing arrangement

If one spouse dies sooner

Death may activate a benefit.

The survivor relies on the benefit payable under the contract and other remaining resources.

If both spouses keep living

A death benefit is not yet payable.

Shared living expenses depend on available income and money you can access under the contract and elsewhere.

Same arrangement. Different timing. Different resources available.

Income during life and death benefits depend on the contract.

For this first comparison, consider the existing arrangement without changing it. If you immediately compare it with a replacement, it’s easy to lose sight of what changed in your life. First understand what the existing choice does in each future. Then consider whether another choice would improve the fit.

What could more years of living change?

More years together mean the plan must continue supporting shared expenses. Consider what you want those years to include and what money you need to access along the way. A strong survivor benefit may remain valuable, but you still need to consider how you will pay for life before that benefit is payable.

Ongoing fees also deserve a fresh look because they reduce the money remaining in an investment account over time.[4] Compare those costs with the benefits you still need. A lower fee alone doesn’t show that giving up a protection would leave you better off.

If you consider changing an annuity, identify the benefits you would lose, any surrender charges, and any new restrictions before acting. A replacement may improve some features while adding costs or restarting a period when withdrawals are restricted.[5] Your professionals should confirm the contract and tax consequences for your situation.

Dovetail Principle: When Life Changes, the Plan Can Change Without Starting Over

You can respect why you made an earlier choice and still reconsider how it fits today. Keep the goal of protecting each other. Update the expectation that has changed, then decide whether the current arrangement still supports both of you.

How can you decide what deserves an adjustment?

Compare any proposed alternative against the same two timelines. Ask what would support the surviving spouse if one of you died sooner, and what would pay for your life together if you both lived longer. Keep the assumptions about spending and timing consistent so the comparison answers the same question.

If an alternative uses investments, assess its risks as well as its flexibility. The investment mix should reflect the time available and the risk you can accept.[6] It should not be presented as recreating an insurance guarantee simply because a projection looks favorable.

You may decide to retain the arrangement, adjust an available feature, or make a change after reviewing the consequences. The useful result is a decision you can explain in terms of the life you’re planning for now. Protecting a spouse and supporting more years together both belong in that decision.

Related Reading: Should You Keep an Older Annuity Contract? explains how to compare an older contract’s current benefits and costs when you are ready to evaluate the arrangement itself.

About the author

Ross Marino, CFP®, CeFT®, is the Founder & CEO of Dovetail Financial and creator of Human-First Financial Guidance®. He helps people nearing or living in retirement connect their lives and wealth so that financial decisions become clearer, more personal, and easier to navigate.

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Notes

  1. The Actuaries Longevity Illustrator Has a New Look and Feel, American Academy of Actuaries and Society of Actuaries, June 25, 2024.
  2. Variable Annuities, U.S. Securities and Exchange Commission.
  3. Annuities, National Association of Insurance Commissioners.
  4. How Fees and Expenses Affect Your Investment Portfolio – Investor Bulletin, U.S. Securities and Exchange Commission.
  5. Should You Exchange Your Variable Annuity?, FINRA, May 24, 2022.
  6. Asset Allocation and Diversification, FINRA.

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